How to change Windows 10 projector settings?

The projector shortcut Win+P is a nice way to switch between different monitors.

The problem with this is that it doesn't respect what you say is your main monitor.

So when I select main screen only, it will use my middle monitor. This is not what I want, I would like to have monitor 3 as my "main" monitor.
Same as when I select second screen only, I would actually like to only use monitor 2.

Is there a way in Windows⁽¹⁾ to change which monitors are used as your "main" and/or "secondary" monitor?

^{(1): The order seems to be based on which port you use on the video-card but since I have a HDMI, DVI and VGA coector I can't change ports}